Cast your burden upon the LORD and he will sustain you.Psalm 55:22
So the sisters [Mary and Martha] sent word to Jesus, “Master, the one you love so very much is sick.”
What can we learn?
Tell him the burden. Just the burden.
You don’t have to figure out or request a specific solution. He will likely sustain you in a way that you cannot foresee or predict, so there’s no need to spend time figuring out how he can help.
Simply tell him what’s happening and then keep your eyes and your heart open, waiting to see how he’ll sustain you. And be willing to attribute the eventual solution to him.